Recently I put up a post on Facebook saying that there was something about how there are people on Facebook that do not ever put their own image on their page or anywhere to be found on Facebook. I had been thinking about that in the back of my mind for quite a while and I realized that it bothered me. I was not exactly sure why, but it just did. Then, I had the realization that it bothered me because in this world of social media, we are connecting more with each other than ever, but on another level we are missing that human element or touch. And in turn by not ever showing your face or any images of your form it feels like even more of a separation...
I believe one of the main missions or purposes (if not the ONLY mission) in this life that we are meant to be doing, is healing any kind of separation; with others and with ourselves. I realized that is why it bothered me. The Internet that is supposed to bring us closer together, and in many ways it does. But on some level it is still keeping us separated from each other with the illusion that were actually becoming close.
I respect everyone's right on the Internet and social media to keep their identity a secret if that's what they choose. What I am talking about is really not about that. It is about what I feel is very sad, which is this pseudo-connections that can happen on social media instead of true real connection. I know this might seem hypocritical of me to say because I'm all about the mystic path and your spiritual life, but the ego can play crazy games with us by letting us hide and not be completely authentic and real and vulnerable. As A Course in Miracles says, it's our vulnerability that is our strength. It is our vulnerability that connects us with people and it is our vulnerability that heals the separation between us and others, between us and the Divine Source and most importantly between us and ourselves.
After I posted this revelation on Facebook there were a few people that sadly commented about how they "hate" or "despise intensely" seeing images of themselves. I have to be very honest, this literally hurt my heart to hear people talking about themselves in that way. And then I thought if it hurts my heart to hear people talking about themselves like this, how must their heart feel…? And what must their lives be like...?
And if I only heard from these few people, there MUST many many more living in this state of mild to extreme self hatred and lack of a healed relationship with themselves...
You see the only real relationship your going to have your whole lifetime is the relationship you have with yourself and if that relationship with yourself at its core is based on "hating" or "despising" yourself even to a slight degree, there is something major to be healed... Of course in the human form we all have times of self-doubt and even of self-loathing. In many ways that's normal. But, what I am trying to address here is an under lying vibration of not accepting ourselves for who we are. This underlining vibration of not accepting our physical form is just a reflection of how we are not accepting our spirit and our inner life. The bottom line is that it is a definition problem of who we think "we "really are and all the reasons we are not worthy or acceptable.
I will be totally honest with you, I come from a place where I didn't like myself very much and in fact wanted to be someone other than me for many years. I had my times of self-doubt and of self-loathing. But, I came to the realization many years ago that unless I started to really heal my relationship with myself there was no way that I could ever have the life that I wanted, or be a truly peaceful and happy being. You could even say that almost all my work is based on my journey of healing my relationship with myself. That relationship with myself has taken many turns over the years, but my commitment to connecting with my true self and not what my ego was telling me was me, has been the joy of my life and I've experienced and see the incredible positive results from that commitment. It has opened up my heart and it has changed everything about my life.
When you're "right" with yourself, your "right" with the world. And when you're "right" with the world everything flows and that's when you live in the magic of life...
Now, coming back to the Facebook post and these reactions that I read, I have to tell you that I felt a strong calling deep inside to reach out and help in some way or another. Over all my years of study, application and research of healing our relationship with ourselves I have come across many techniques and tools. All of them have had value and have contributed to healing my relationship with myself in many ways. I have taught many of these to students and private clients also.
But sometimes healing our relationship with ourselves can be just matter of changing our habits; the habits of what you are saying to yourself about yourself and what you're saying to yourself about your life and life in general. I have a mantra that I say every morning before I get out of bed and this mantra is so simple, but soooo powerful. I attribute this mantra to much of my peace and healing my relationship with myself and the world. As they say, less is more and a simple mantra said over and over and over again can change everything. It can change everything if we commit to it because we're finally done feeling bad about ourselves and our about life.
So.... I am inviting you to a 4 Week Challenge to begin to really heal your relationship with yourself and heal your relationship to life. If you are ready to finally stop having a kind of mild depression about yourself that you're putting up with, or if you're done with not living in the joy and the love and the peace of life,
I invite you to take the,
I believe one of the main missions or purposes (if not the ONLY mission) in this life that we are meant to be doing, is healing any kind of separation; with others and with ourselves. I realized that is why it bothered me. The Internet that is supposed to bring us closer together, and in many ways it does. But on some level it is still keeping us separated from each other with the illusion that were actually becoming close.
I respect everyone's right on the Internet and social media to keep their identity a secret if that's what they choose. What I am talking about is really not about that. It is about what I feel is very sad, which is this pseudo-connections that can happen on social media instead of true real connection. I know this might seem hypocritical of me to say because I'm all about the mystic path and your spiritual life, but the ego can play crazy games with us by letting us hide and not be completely authentic and real and vulnerable. As A Course in Miracles says, it's our vulnerability that is our strength. It is our vulnerability that connects us with people and it is our vulnerability that heals the separation between us and others, between us and the Divine Source and most importantly between us and ourselves.
After I posted this revelation on Facebook there were a few people that sadly commented about how they "hate" or "despise intensely" seeing images of themselves. I have to be very honest, this literally hurt my heart to hear people talking about themselves in that way. And then I thought if it hurts my heart to hear people talking about themselves like this, how must their heart feel…? And what must their lives be like...?
And if I only heard from these few people, there MUST many many more living in this state of mild to extreme self hatred and lack of a healed relationship with themselves...
You see the only real relationship your going to have your whole lifetime is the relationship you have with yourself and if that relationship with yourself at its core is based on "hating" or "despising" yourself even to a slight degree, there is something major to be healed... Of course in the human form we all have times of self-doubt and even of self-loathing. In many ways that's normal. But, what I am trying to address here is an under lying vibration of not accepting ourselves for who we are. This underlining vibration of not accepting our physical form is just a reflection of how we are not accepting our spirit and our inner life. The bottom line is that it is a definition problem of who we think "we "really are and all the reasons we are not worthy or acceptable.
I will be totally honest with you, I come from a place where I didn't like myself very much and in fact wanted to be someone other than me for many years. I had my times of self-doubt and of self-loathing. But, I came to the realization many years ago that unless I started to really heal my relationship with myself there was no way that I could ever have the life that I wanted, or be a truly peaceful and happy being. You could even say that almost all my work is based on my journey of healing my relationship with myself. That relationship with myself has taken many turns over the years, but my commitment to connecting with my true self and not what my ego was telling me was me, has been the joy of my life and I've experienced and see the incredible positive results from that commitment. It has opened up my heart and it has changed everything about my life.
When you're "right" with yourself, your "right" with the world. And when you're "right" with the world everything flows and that's when you live in the magic of life...
Now, coming back to the Facebook post and these reactions that I read, I have to tell you that I felt a strong calling deep inside to reach out and help in some way or another. Over all my years of study, application and research of healing our relationship with ourselves I have come across many techniques and tools. All of them have had value and have contributed to healing my relationship with myself in many ways. I have taught many of these to students and private clients also.
But sometimes healing our relationship with ourselves can be just matter of changing our habits; the habits of what you are saying to yourself about yourself and what you're saying to yourself about your life and life in general. I have a mantra that I say every morning before I get out of bed and this mantra is so simple, but soooo powerful. I attribute this mantra to much of my peace and healing my relationship with myself and the world. As they say, less is more and a simple mantra said over and over and over again can change everything. It can change everything if we commit to it because we're finally done feeling bad about ourselves and our about life.
So.... I am inviting you to a 4 Week Challenge to begin to really heal your relationship with yourself and heal your relationship to life. If you are ready to finally stop having a kind of mild depression about yourself that you're putting up with, or if you're done with not living in the joy and the love and the peace of life,
I invite you to take the,
What Some Participants in the Last Round of the Challenge have said:
 Chelsea (Los Angeles)
" I felt like I came out of this challenge with an even stronger connection to myself and feeling more faithful to my inner being that was beginning to be suppressed for the sake of not conflicting with others. The mantra gave me something to redirect my energy with/to so I can turn away from the negativity surrounding me at any given time- it gives me something else to focus on...
The biggest shift in my life was feeling much more connected and comfortable with who I was mentally and spiritually. (The Challenge) made me really understand and uncage the spirit and energy deep within my soul so that I could react differently to the negative outside forces in my life and not fall victim to my circumstances whether sad, frustrating, difficult, annoying, depressing- whatever."  Juliet (Escondido CA)
"My world looked and felt a lot brighter, I felt more optimistic and full of hope, and my life just changed for the better, so much so that loving myself became the equivalent to a drug that I wanted more and more of daily.
This challenge was a great idea. I love that people were brought together for 30 days to concentrate on something as seemingly simple as loving themselves"  Elaine (New York)
" (The Challenge made me feel like) I CAN make a difference in my own life...even if people remain the same, or circumstances...I am able to be happy with "me"
The love and support I felt from Max and everyone involved was huge...it was a safe place for me to go to be honest and not afraid to say my deepest feelings...a safe space...beautiful...thank you Max from the bottom of my heart" |
 Tracy (Los Angeles)
"Wow! I cannot thank you enough for leading this challenge. It was exactly what I needed at the exact moment that I needed it. It has been rough at times in being honest about dealing with my not so pleasant up bringing, realizing that just the act of not thinking about the past does not equal letting it go (a lot of forgiveness of self at this stage because I had forgiven others) and now being able to let it go and learn to love myself in the process. In fact at times so intense, there were a couple of days I had to step back but I continued and I'm happy I did! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you my friend! "
 Beecham (Los Angeles)
"I'm more compassionate with myself like I am with other people. I also am more calm and less fretful of life circumstances.
My biggest shifts, are being more compassionate with myself when I make a mistake and handling life circumstances more calmly as I love myself more completely. Thank you Max for all the Love you gave us and for your encouragement for us to do the same with ourselves and others! Your passion and love of teaching others how to love themselves completely is a gift to the world that is much needed and appreciated!  Cathy (Tennessee)
"(The 30 day Challenge was) Positive. I find myself saying the mantra in the morning after waking and in the evening when falling asleep. Sometimes I find myself saying during the day to bring myself to a more positive place.
At first there was resistance to using the mantra at all. I mentioned this on FB I think. Max responded right away! When I said the mantra at first I didn't feel that I loved myself or my life and all this negative self talk would try to beat you to death. I persisted and find it easier to say and at times comforting to say. Max is the best |
Anuradha (UK)
"I learned so much about loving myself. This tools you presented and your positive energy shifted so much for me. I am now trying to be more loving to myself and I see it in how I can accept my daughter and husband more too. I'm being gentler and having more fun in my interractions with myself, them and others because I am tapped into the universal love instead of seeking it from others.
Max is a delightful teacher and well trained in the law of attraction. He is caring and compassionate. His ability to show love for his students is a paramount teaching tool--he models that love we all want and can learn to give to ourselves and others. This 30 day challenge is well worth the time and investment--it can change your life."
Max is a delightful teacher and well trained in the law of attraction. He is caring and compassionate. His ability to show love for his students is a paramount teaching tool--he models that love we all want and can learn to give to ourselves and others. This 30 day challenge is well worth the time and investment--it can change your life."
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"I was at the live webinar last night-and it too was HUGE for me also-hearing MAX say again that YOU WILL begin to feel a change, a shift , a little relief-YES!! And guess what?? -if you do the work-it fricken WORKS!!!
I am doing this Love Challenge again because I know I can feel better the more I do it! The group work here is just as important as the work you do with yourself! Rome wasn't built in a day-and either will I be-I will never be finished-but I WILL be growing learning and loving! Thank you for this MAX and everyone here! ONLY LOVE IS REAL!" |
Susan
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As I always say the time is now. The time is now to start your life. The time is now to embrace the life that you have. The time is now to heal the relationship that you have with yourself. The time is now to finally love and accept your true self...
If what I have said here strikes a chord or sounds like something you would like to work on with me on, I invite you to come along for 4 Week ride that will change your life. I KNOW IT WILL..
HOW IT WILL WORK: I will share this powerful mantra with you and once a week for four weeks we will connect via ZOOM online classroom, share and commit to healing our relationship with ourselves.
You make the commitment to do the mantra EVERY DAY for 30 days and I commit to you for the 30 days to do whatever I can to help you to apply this mantra to your life and help you to get "right" with yourself.
*There will be one call a week for four weeks and in between all you do is the mantra as I instruct you to do it. THAT'S IT....
The Calls will be Wednesday evenings at 7pm Pacific Time/ 10pm Eastern Time USA
CLICK HERE FOR YOUR LOCAL TIME
June 21 & 28 July 5 & 12
* ALL CLASSES WILL BE RECORDED
*There will also be a Facebook group where you will have support from your fellow healers on the path along with myself.
I AM ONLY ASKING FOR ONE THING FROM YOU IN EXCHANGE: YOUR 100% COMMITMENT
I am offering this 4 week Challenge as MY GIFT TO YOU from bottom of my heart because I have been called to do this.
Once again:
This is a FREE gift that will cost you nothing...but your willingness and 100% commitment to do the Mantra and simple homework for 4 weeks.
Are ready to heal your relationship with yourself and want it badly enough to make this relatively easy commitment?
Once again, if this 4 Week Love Yourself, Love Your Life challenge calls to your heart I encourage you to join me and others for this awesome journey!
Here's to healing your relationship with yourself and life!!
All you have to do to participate in the challenge is to fill in the form below and I will send you all the details for this challenge.
LOVE,
If what I have said here strikes a chord or sounds like something you would like to work on with me on, I invite you to come along for 4 Week ride that will change your life. I KNOW IT WILL..
HOW IT WILL WORK: I will share this powerful mantra with you and once a week for four weeks we will connect via ZOOM online classroom, share and commit to healing our relationship with ourselves.
You make the commitment to do the mantra EVERY DAY for 30 days and I commit to you for the 30 days to do whatever I can to help you to apply this mantra to your life and help you to get "right" with yourself.
*There will be one call a week for four weeks and in between all you do is the mantra as I instruct you to do it. THAT'S IT....
The Calls will be Wednesday evenings at 7pm Pacific Time/ 10pm Eastern Time USA
CLICK HERE FOR YOUR LOCAL TIME
June 21 & 28 July 5 & 12
* ALL CLASSES WILL BE RECORDED
*There will also be a Facebook group where you will have support from your fellow healers on the path along with myself.
I AM ONLY ASKING FOR ONE THING FROM YOU IN EXCHANGE: YOUR 100% COMMITMENT
I am offering this 4 week Challenge as MY GIFT TO YOU from bottom of my heart because I have been called to do this.
Once again:
This is a FREE gift that will cost you nothing...but your willingness and 100% commitment to do the Mantra and simple homework for 4 weeks.
Are ready to heal your relationship with yourself and want it badly enough to make this relatively easy commitment?
Once again, if this 4 Week Love Yourself, Love Your Life challenge calls to your heart I encourage you to join me and others for this awesome journey!
Here's to healing your relationship with yourself and life!!
All you have to do to participate in the challenge is to fill in the form below and I will send you all the details for this challenge.
LOVE,
Lastly, if you see value and feel compelled to contribute a LOVE offering for this 4 Week LOVE Challenge you can do that below.
Thank you in advance!
XXX